People really seem to ignore the weight of itadori's offer to sukuna, the consequences that would have landed on him had sukuna actually accepted. They really think itadori made the offer to the man they've been fighting and losing friends and family over, a chance to live with him, without thinking about how he would be also frowned upon or maybe worse. Given what we know now, it would've been more than possible that yuji was ready to distanced himself if necessary to keep both, sukuna but moreso jujutsu society at bay. And this would've included nobara and megumi amongst other friends that survived.