Anonymous Coward · 15h
hi. perhaps a weird question but do you see a lot of looks-ism in femdom spaces? i have always been drawn towards The Calling but i have not been able to get past the general aesthetics i feel may be expected of me………. i do not have long hair and i am fat and i do not like to shave. i feel men may not be drawn to the whole shabang when its giving ButchDom but its still hetero. Thoughts? are most Miss Ladies very fem?
I’d say yeah, especially in commercial dungeon spaces. However, there’s a niche for EVERYBODY and EVERYTHING. it might just take longer but you’ll find your subs. I’ve found being as much of myself as I can be has been less mentally laborious, and the people that want you for you will come. (I don’t shave either lol, you’d be surprised how many people are fiening for my pits)
