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Anonymous Coward · 13h
i'm so nervous to ask but i must. how did you balance college and domming. reaaally am desperate to get into it. ik someone else asked but i am kind of dumbfounded on where to start. i still have so many questions , but i hope you can answer this for me. you are such an inspiration for me! thank you!
At that time it def helped I had a partner to play with ! I didn’t go pro until I graduated bc I wanted to focus on my thesis! Mostly would just play casually at first when I had free time :0
Anonymous Coward · 13h
Hi boss, just wanted to say the synthesis between ur illustration work and dom work is awesome and very unique 👌 like the recent vid of ur sub and then the easter man piece...so epic and inspiring. keep up the good work ur passion always shines thru very clearly :)
THANK YOU SO MUCH :D
Anonymous Coward · 15h
hi. perhaps a weird question but do you see a lot of looks-ism in femdom spaces? i have always been drawn towards The Calling but i have not been able to get past the general aesthetics i feel may be expected of me………. i do not have long hair and i am fat and i do not like to shave. i feel men may not be drawn to the whole shabang when its giving ButchDom but its still hetero. Thoughts? are most Miss Ladies very fem?
I’d say yeah, especially in commercial dungeon spaces. However, there’s a niche for EVERYBODY and EVERYTHING. it might just take longer but you’ll find your subs. I’ve found being as much of myself as I can be has been less mentally laborious, and the people that want you for you will come. (I don’t shave either lol, you’d be surprised how many people are fiening for my pits)
Anonymous Coward · 1d
I think your account is really making me consider getting into bdsm but it's hard to get past the dysphoria of being seen as a woman. Do you have any tips on how to feel less dysphoric about it?
Treat it kind of like drag, like when you’re putting on your gear—> you’re stepping into the role of someone who you’ve made, if you’re also an artist, think of it kind of like an OC. Also just playing with other trans people, surround yourself with people who understand and will get it.
For me, mistress Maxxie is the most me as I can be, but also still just a part of me, like my soul has been divided into three parts and they all do different things.
Anonymous Coward · 1d
Hello!!! I LOOOVE your Outlast art (your Easterman is so yummy..) and seeing your recent dominatrix content kinda awoken smth in me??? I’d like to ask how would someone get into the scene and find a sub? Much love!!!!
tysm!!! start w ur local play parties! Best way to find events locally is fetlife
Anonymous Coward · 21h
do you ever dom trans men? asking for normal reasons
DUHHH well yes!
Anonymous Coward · 1d
Very important question here.. Claude Frollo, Silco, Easterman, and Snape are all in a room lined up waiting for you, which cookie are you going for first???
THIS IS CRAZYYY😭 frollo so I can bitch him out first cuz I hate him and after he has to leave, then snape..I will take my time with him. then smoke break with silco and passionate love making for at least an hour. Maybe we have some wine. Up until this point easterman has been locked in a crate in the corner forced to watch with a shock collar on his neck that I’m occasionally zapping. Naturally, easterman goes last bcuz I’m saying his old man snatch for #dessert..
Anonymous Coward · 1d
sometimes when im putting on my disposable gloves at work (im currently interning at a hospital lab, its fun stuff #blood #needles) i think abt how u use em (disposable gloves) to shove ur hand up a whole guy and it makes things a little less tedious when things are Slow thank u for ur hard work
THIS IS SOOO AHHAHSHAHDN . THATS so cool though omg!!!
Anonymous Coward · 1d
i follow you for outlast and its really funny when i get random dominatrix porn on my timeline. not complaining tho!
LOLLL ty I cannot seperate them..
Anonymous Coward · 1d
love love love your content so much!! how did you first get into being a dominatrix? its beautiful stuff
thanks! legit just threw myself into it the second I could (which I wouldn’t necessarily recommend) Felt like it was always in my life, and a main interest of mine that I HAD to pursue or else my soul would not be fulfilled. Played for years as hobby then lifestyle trying to build up mah skill set :D! Then when I graduated college I went pro- but rn I took a break from working at the dungeon