unfortunately seeing myself in second person view would absolutely destroy me, I think it's my worst nightmare. I struggle to look at pictures of myself, as it is. I also think the raw body experience would give me a considerable amount of dysphoria, and I'm not sure I'd enjoy moving... my husband is a godlike beauty to me, but inhabiting that body for myself as if it were my own, is not something I fantasize about or think I could enjoy. What I like and what I am, contrast highly.

He might be able to enjoy inhabiting my body and moving around, but he'd have to be concerned with me, so it couldn't be a party in any sense, eh...................

the most useful thing I could imagine doing is taking physical stock of his body from a sort of medical standpoint, and assess any symptoms he may be desensitized to or think of as 'normal'! Perhaps assessing things as a sort of mad scientist perspective would help me to not freak out, and just see this swap as a temporarily useful perspective for caring for my husband's conditions.