little demons · 13d
Hi xiaoxin, i feel like theres sm discourse abt theories etc. but honestly, is it wrong to feel the fun reading a little funsies theories? its not all of that theories gonna became true anyway, even if one of them became true i think thats might be coincidence. i feel like we should enjoy our own way of fangirling, im a realistic person too tbh and not always treating all of the theories are right, theres dumb theories too that doesn't make any sense. even if i enjoyed reading theories, i still have my own way too supporting them as individuals. is it truly that wrong?
I'm not saying it's wrong at all :) As I said, I understand why some fans enjoy reading theories, and there's nothing wrong with finding happiness in them. Even if it's just for a moment, happiness is still happiness.
Like I've said before, everyone has their own way of supporting and idolizing someone. Some people enjoy analyzing details, some enjoy making theories, some focus on official updates only, and some simply enjoy watching from the sidelines. None of those approaches are inherently right or wrong as long as everything stays within reasonable boundaries :)
When I said theories can be "wrong," I wasn't talking about the fans themselves. I meant that many theories may eventually turn out to be incorrect because they're based on fan interpretations rather than confirmed facts~ To me, the healthiest fandom space is one where people can enjoy theories, enjoy discussions, enjoy official content, and still keep an open mind if things turn out differently than expected 😊 You can enjoy theories while still supporting them as individuals and staying realistic. Those things aren't mutually exclusive.
At the end of the day, fandom should bring more happiness than stress. If reading theories is fun for you and doesn't negatively affect your view of them or other fans, then I don't see a problem with it at all 💖💚
