Anon · 27d
Asking as someone who DOES deal with this and wants a like-minded individuals opinion: do you ever feel shame about your fantasies, or especially anxiety that they could be more than fantasy? How do you deal with that in your head? I don't like feeling this way 🥺
i know mine are relegated to fantasy, so i don’t get that anxiety, but i so feel embarrassed by things i like. maybe a little shame. but i think i’m a bit weird in that i’m pretty open to unconventional kinks and fantasies. it does take time to feel less shame, though, since i used to have a bit more myself. give yourself some time 💜 and remember, it’s just fantasy!
