Oh boy idk. A lot of things honestly. I had a near-death life experience a few years ago, and I changed a lot after that. If anyone's curious, i can talk more about it, but it's actually not that interesting lol
Breaking up with my first ever long-term boyfriend was also really jarring, but it made me reevaluate my values and what I look for in a partner.
One of my family members died almost two months ago, so that's been something. If anyone else is also experiencing loss, I'm always here if you want to talk <3
But most of all, starting college has been the most character defining for me, especially since I'm planning to become a nurse and take care of sick people. I have to put on my big girl pants and be a functional member of society which is hard some days but rewarding when I succeed!