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Ada Freya · 2 answers · 6mo

Are you now where you thought you'd be ten years ago? (Basically, ten years ago, where did you think you'd end up at and are you close to that?)

10 years ago I was approaching 18, I didn't think at that time I would get this old. I don't think I had any long term plans around that time besides the uni I dropped out of later, I was constantly disassociating at that time anyway. I can say that I am much better off that I would have dreamed, I'm having a roof over my head, got my parents and sister banished from my life, can afford food and to help friends in need, I have people in my life that don't despise me despite my involuntarily best efforts. There are still many things wrong with me, many things I need to figure out, many things I need to do, but for many of those I have the means to do it I think... just need to take care to approach change and not just cling to what I have out of fear of loosing it... I don't take for granted what I have and it is hard sometimes to relax and not worry to a paralyzing degree

I know where I want to be in 10 years... but who knows what happens between now and then.

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