hi!! i’m doing fine, thank you for asking, and don’t worry, i’m totally comfortable with you sending this.

first of all, thank you so much for your kind words, i really appreciate it. and yes, i won’t deny it, i do go lengths for anxin because him (and sangwon) genuinely mean a lot to me. they’re a huge part of why i’m still here today, and i’ll always be grateful for them.

also, thank you for acknowledging the “bad apples,” but honestly you don’t have to apologize on behalf of other people 😭 you’re already doing more than enough by being respectful and mature about it.

and i agree with you 100%, this whole shipwar needs to stop. ships are supposed to be fun and add color to the fandom, not something that turns into competition or hatred. sometimes it feels like people forget that the members are real people, not characters that exist just to fulfill whatever fans want.

at the end of the day, we can all have our own preferences and still co-exist. different ships can exist in the same fandom and it shouldn’t be an issue at all. all we really need is respect and boundaries, because the moment it turns toxic, it’s always the members who suffer the most.

thank you again for sending this, it means a lot 🥺🤍 i hope we can all just enjoy the group peacefully and support them the way they deserve.