HAHAAA IYAA, benerrr koo 😭 honestly aku juga dari dulu cukup familiar sama dinamika ship yang masc x fem, masc x masc, maupun fem x fem, jadi mungkin memang udah terbiasa ngeliatnya jadi bagian dari interpretasi dan kreativitas fandom ajaaa, kalo sreg ya aku baca, kalo engga langsung skip, cuma mungkin sekarang orang orang jadi lebih aware sama isu gender representation, heteronormativity, dan stereotip dalam hubungan queer, which i think is a good thing sih menurutku.. malah bagus jd pada lebih melek, walau mungkin keliatannya nyebelin dikit dikit ada polisi missgendering, tp sbnrnya ini a lil good thing

but at the same time, being aware of these issues shouldnt mean we automatically label every dynamic as problematic, ttp menurutku ada space untuk ngeliat konteks, paham maksud penulis, dan bisa membedakan antara ekspresi feminin dengan penghapusan identitas gender seseorang. we can be critical without being unnecessarily dismissive of other people's creative expression jugaa seperti ituu

hiiii hiii thank you for asking yah, sbnrnya udah ada yg pernah nanya aku di x, pernah ku jawab juga, cm aku lupa keywordnya apa.. yes i do understand the concern. but honestly, alasan aku ngeship mereka lebih ke how i perceive their dynamics and the chemistry (in real life) dan i find interesting to explore through my AU. its not necessarily about wanting to romanticise an adult-minor relationship or anything along those lines, walaupun emg dalam au ku aku nulis mrk as a pairing

tp aku juga nggak pernah punya intensi untuk membawa pairing ini ke arah seksual atau inappropriate. for me, its simply a fictional romantic storyline, and ive always tried to keep that in mind when writing them, makanya aku gapernah samsek bikin cerita lebih jauh soal mereka di au aku (boleh liat sendiri), cukup sbg side pairing aja. aku paham kalau usia jh masih jadi concern, and i dont want to dismiss that either. i just hope the pairing itself isnt automatically assumed to have harmful intentions without considering how its actually portrayed in the AU.. i do think minor x adult is still a sensitive issue and shouldnt be taken lightly. tp mungkin lebih ke consider how the relationship is actually portrayed. im not trying to dismiss the concern or justify inappropriate portrayals, tp mungkin bahasa halusnya tu every romantic storyline involving characters with an age difference should automatically be viewed in the same way aja.. tp misal keliatannya kurang jelas dan masi mau nanya2, dm aku ajaa langsung yaa