sweetie · 9h
You can call me party pooper, hi im ynbnist too, but i highly suggest you to aware esp your anonymous. you can say you dont want to point a finger, but what's happening out there was true since 2023. specific shippers who are always jealous of ynbnist really happens every day I can't point them out one by one because they can suddenly change as good girl as if nothing happened after insulting yeonjun (mostly yeonjun get insulted by them bcs there're so much time soobin interact with him), big accounts are also friends with them even on private accounts, even solo stans from one specific member are worse than solo stans from soobin and yeonjun themselves. just dont be denial, you shld accept that it's a popular fact that has become public consumption in our fandom.
i understand where you're coming from, and im definitely not blind to the extreme harassment so many of us (and the boys) face in this fandom just for enjoying what we like. however, i think you're confusing being 'in denial' with personal boundaries and how i choose to handle things. i’ve been in kpop world long enough to know that dragging groups or pointing fingers only feeds the drama, and it won't stop the toxicity.
ship wars are just people arguing over fictional headcanons and personal interpretations. none of them are 100% fact or fiction, they're just things we choose to enjoy. and ofc, as in many stories, i think there are people who really want a villain here, and honestly, I'm not interested in that.
so yeah, this is just how i choose to handle things. it might not be the approach you'd take, but it’s what works for me and what i'll continue to do.
