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kei's puppy · 13d
Thank you keiiii your a life saver!!
kei's puppy · 14d
YEA I try to journal abt it sometimes, I think it helps. I randomly get hyper fixated on ppl (friends) and so the tinniest thing feels like abandonment, you know? I feel like I'm awful with explaining things hehe. The tinniest thing gets me thinking I'm gona be 'replaced'. I think the person is awesome but ig I'm the problem...telling them this and communicating?? Do you think that's a go idea? I feel like fear of being 'too much' or 'too emotional'. Just telling you all this, is eating me alive Lol.
I understand and thank you for trusting me with this.
Well, for one: the thing about avoidants is that, they pull away not because they don’t like you — but because they are scared as well. They also want connections, but they are scared of what might happen once they do so. Contradictory to people with anxious attachments, they respond by pulling away instead of clinging — which is different from what anxious people do.
Avoidant people need time to process their thoughts and feelings that’s why their response to situation tends to lean towards pulling away instead of pushing.
No, you’re not the problem — and neither are they. You just have different approaches when it comes to these things. Sometimes, the best thing you can do for them is to give them space. And just like what I’ve said, instead of internalizing the problem, it would help if you communicate this to them in a way that would not scare them away, i hope I’m getting my suggestion across here. And again, try reshaping your thought process when it comes to this because it would take a toll on you if you dwell on it.
I believe that communication goes a long way. And yeah, patience.
meme · 14d
KEI!!! I NEED HELP. DO YOU HAVE TIPS ON HOW TO WORK ON MY ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT?? ESPECIALLY WHEN EVERYONE SROUND ME AVOIDANT LOL. I TRY NOT THINK ABT IT TOO MUCH BUT SOMETIMES IT GETS TO ME
Hello. Asking: What is your main concern? Do you want to build connections / interact with them??
When it comes to attachment, it is more cognitive. We approach them based on what we think about them. If you are one who thinks that avoidants "don't like you" because they pull away, that affects how you interact with them. One way is to reshape your cognition since having an anxious attachment means that you tend to lean into the "scared" or "anxious" side which is very contradictory to what avoidants feel.
Also, I believe patience can also help. Once you understand them, it would be easier for you.
kei's puppy · 14d
where is bei?why dehins na kau nagiinteract
kei's puppy · 16d
Hi I wanted to ask how do you write smut? You read fics?
yes i read a lot of fics!!! then there would be moments when a prompt would suddenly pop into my head and i would usually think of one dialogue and then i just build the plot from there. sometimes a song.
most of the time, i reach a flow state because as the scenes are playing in my head, i type it.
i consider me having experience when it comes to sex an advantage because i already have the vision for what i want to happen (not that im saying you should have experience tho! just making use of what i already have 😓😓)
idk if this helps 😓😓
kei's puppy · 22d
hi, ms kei! just want to ask if may deleted bang panels sa latest au mo? di kasi nagshoshowup yung panels 36,52,66,68. 😭😭😭 btw, I really love your au. ❤️
kei's puppy · 22d
I read ur latest angst au, tangina mo kei.
panagutan mo lahat ng sakit na nararamdaman ko tangina 💔 i knew it wouldn’t have a happy ending, pero for some reason i still hoped for it
kei's puppy · 1mo
hello keii! I just want to ask, how do you write
thank you in advance <33
hiyaaa 🌻 when it comes sa ideas, usually kapag may scene akong naiimagine sa utak ko, i list them down. most of my works were born from a single line / dialogue that i want to write and i just create a story around it.
i also make sure that i adapt the proper atmosphere / wording that is appropriate to the vibe of the story. like for example, dun sa vamp cc x priest wsw ko. diba parang ang sacred nung vibes or something (kung sacred man ang kantutan sa altar LAFF) - bale ang ginawa ko dun ay gumagamit ako ng words na appropriate for it to build the vibes.
most of my works are sponty lang talaga, kung anong maisip LOL i don't attempt to force a humor i don't have, although naiinggit ako sa ilan na magaling sa ganon. pero i don't force it. kung anong lumabas sakin, yun na yon HAHAHAHAHA
sana nakatulong? but i doubt it would help 😭😭🤚 pasensya na 😭🤚
kei's puppy · 1mo
hi ate kei (same anon asking abt AI)
i was hoping u would’ve addressed it publicly (maybe u did? but i couldn’t find any tweet) — i personally wasn’t aware the image was AI until i recommended your work to one of my friends i budoled into RL, and they pointed out the image was AI which kinda made me feel embarrassed for having suggested your work in the first place… bc of it, they don’t trust ur work and it kinda did make me have some doubts as well.
i have no negative feelings towards AI, i know that AI can be useful for some people but not disclosing the usage of AI (regardless of the reasoning why u used it) only does more harm when people have to find out themselves, it feels deceptive to not own these kinds of decisions.
i hope u’ll be able to make a good layout for it in the future, i’ll continue to support your work but probably a little less until the disappointment goes away.
hello anon! thank you for getting back to me! i appreciate it alot.
i understand the disappointment,and i truly apologize for that. i have taken measures and deleted my master thread. im currently working on my layout skills as i understand the implications of this when it comes to my credibility. if it's any consolation, i promise that my writings are all 100% original (my friends are a witness to this bc i usually send snippets and discuss my ideas with them while i do it).
i understand din na yung trust nyo sakin is nag-decrease, I cannot blame you for that. I will work harder to be better para ma-gain ulit yung trust nyo sa work ko.
still, i really want to thank you for pointing this out sakin.
kei's puppy · 1mo
mhie AI ba yang picture na naka-pin sa profile nyo? do u use AI? :(((
hello anon!! first of all, tysm for addressing this to me privately despite the batshit things happening rn. i wanna explain my side and hopefully spark healthy conversations with you!
yes, the photo on my masterthread is ai — yet all my works under it are original works. why? i cannot layout a good visual to save my life 🥲 also, dumadami na ang works ko and i need to compile them in one masterthread.
don’t get me wrong!!! i am not 100% in favor of using ai lalo na if it harms someone’s reputation to create deepfakes and stuff like that. but ai also has it’s pros — well atleast for me ^-^
I have consulted my friend about this — one who I trust will be 100% straightforward with me and I definitely gained some insights to which I decided na I will take down my masterthread and find time to create a visual myself.
Thank you for this, anon! I’ll do better!