What is a reference that you know one of your friends will understand for me its: My bones are squishy
"That's nonsense Charlie", "Ek will huis toe gaan, naa mama toe, etc.", "He's bouncin' off my booty cheeks, I love the way he rides, etc." and "You got a tight little man pussy on you, dontcha?, etc.". Idk if these are references, but it's something commonly used between us.