i dont reply do texts ever. like my friends scolded me the last time we went out bcs they know little to nothing about my life, as for an example the last time my bffs heard me talk about a bf was in 2023 😭 its not so fun bcs they feel bad about it and i keep saying "ill reply later" and then.. i forget. im working on it to be more present, but i do answer two people religiously on discord so they should value me a lot 😚