She likes facial hair a lot, probably has a preference for body hair for both genders, but doesn't mind someone being furless.. when it comes to men esp, she has a huge auto-biastophilia kink (she has a general biastophilia kink for both genders, she is not innocent of fantasy in the opposite direction, but it's USUALLY preferred for her to play the victim) and I think traits like the man being way bigger than her helps perpetuate that fantasy, like if she's in a low but sexually active state, she doesn't really want to be given the chance to win.. like theoretically ig.

So in a sense Dutch is like peak to her physically, but he overindulges so much and she's not romantically attracted to him at all so she doesn't really tend to have a sexual-based interest in sleeping with him either (referring back to the other reasons she might still sleep with someone without really getting off to it herself).
She actually didn't mind at first, and has came with Dutch a few times despite not genuinely liking him, albeit was wary when they started fw each other because she couldn't tell if Micah was actually okay with it or not.

Dicks specifically, she's on and off about because there's moments where she's completely repulsed and doesn't even want to see one (and in these times just feeling too exposed herself can be triggering), and there's other moments where she's more sexually active and doesn't really care. Definitely, like most things, gets off to something if its in a non-consensual context, though. Like the focus of being forced to take dick or being forced to cock-worship would be appealing to her, but she doesn't just see a cock on it's own and goes "mmm" right away or have a preference for how it looks beyond "clean" lol.

Yeah her commitments and furthermore her desire to sleep with someone is more romantic based. Back in 1898 and 1899, she felt her relationship with Micah was super affectionate even if he doesn't show affection well-- but it's more like.. "I know him and this is definitely him picking me out of the crowd / he definitely likes me" type of thing. Like he is treating her special even though, ironically, his initial intention was just to sleep with her (she grew on him afterwards, though).
Their relationship back then was them being secretive about it and it really just made it feel more fun and somehow more romantic to her.. and she already considered him her best friend and a sort of mentor, so it was easy to kind of lovebomb her a bit.

Uhh idk I feel kinda braindead writing this / can't think too clearly and I'm sure that's reflective in the way I'm typing, so I hope I'm explaining this coherently enough / answering everything but yeahh