Hello
Thank you so much for taking the time to read my message and respond with such thoughtfulness. I really appreciate that you received my curiosity without offense, it reassures me that I asked the right person.

A few things in your reply really helped clarify the picture for me. The feather and stone metaphor was perfect; it made your perspective completely clear. I also really like the “2+1” approach you suggested it seems like a very balanced and considerate way to provide feedback.

Regarding authors not replying to positive comments, I personally feel genuinely excited when an author responds to mine. It feels like a small fan moment and motivates me to continue leaving thoughtful and encouraging comments for others as well.

About tagging, I understand your point completely. As a reader, I sometimes feel frustrated when works aren’t properly tagged, as certain themes or ideas are things I avoid entirely. However, I never lash out at the author; I simply move on quietly. I also recognize that most authors are very diligent with tagging, which I truly appreciate.

I agree with your perspective that the responsibility lies on both the author and the reader, and that finding the fine line depends on the individual.
Your insights have given me a much deeper understanding of this dynamic, and I’m grateful for the clarity.

Thank you again for your time and for sharing your thoughts so openly.
:)