HI so!!! i can Promise You that whether or not i follow someone is NOT indicative of whether or not i like them or consider them a friend!!!! i'm a little (a lot) neurotic about what's on my timeline, and my brain throws walls up All The Time that keep me from following people who are absolute delights— for literally no reason. at all. and i feel like a big floppy-shoed clown when that wall finally evaporates and i click One Button after MONTHS. but i am holding my pinky out to you right now, okay? if i TALK to you, i LIKE you and 100% consider you a friend!! if we have conversations, extended ones, you are IN MY MIND and i consider you a mutual in spirit if not in fact!!!