i’m glad you enjoy it <333 my agenda is #working then. i like that flavor of dom/sadist yh very much because while it essentially functions the same way as other genres of sexually deviant yh (including but not limited to sub/masochist), dom/sadist has a more Active connotation to me ie he can’t just have people Do It To Him (and thus shoulder the “responsibility”, whatever that entails) and has to enact it on others himself. i think that’ll really scare him. i also personally find it really fun. newbie dom yh is sooo prone to domdrop it’s highkey humiliating but seasoned dom yh….. oh my god……… since i’m a ynhw guy i’m gonna say this goes hand-in-hand with my masochistic(?) switch sh. sh isn’t like hardcore masochistic to me he’s ambivalent to pain at best but he’s also sick in the head so he likes it when yh tortures him because it feels like he’s in touch with yh’s ultimate weakness. in a sense, my sh is only actually masochistic for my yh 💞