Anonymous Coward · 6d
Hi, sorry for the pessimistic rant. I just joined the fandom not too long ago and I’m struggling with making friends in the fandom. I have tried to dm and talk with a few zeroses and they seemed uninterested. I feel like most zerose have known each other since BP so they seemed to have already formed their own friend groups. It’s quite lonely and discouraged when I kept getting rejected. Do you have any recommendations what I can do and how to make new friends? Thank you so much and hope you have a happy week.
Hi!!! Nooo please don't say sorry I'm willing to listen to any rant !!!! 🥹 i understand what you're feeling as i just joined the fandom like this last december and made this acc like 2 months ago and i only made small conversations with 2-3 zeroses max, but my reason for the small and inconsistent conversations is that I'm leaving my account soon after i stop writing because keeping track of my ppusamz works is the very reason for my account. Though what i suggest you do is do more open interactions like commenting and liking memes, edits, you know those fun stuff. engage in little conversations like giving a small compliment when they post something, genuine human-like interaction instead of just rting stuff, or post your opinion and silly headcanons and I'm sure you'll attract more people that has a same way of thinking as you. Same opinion = better chemistry. i think. But please do not feel discouraged!! Im sure there are people that would be thrilled to make new and more friends in the zerose community (Also join communities!!!☺️ Or do those #zerosemoots (?)) be crazy and be yourself, be loud for your love for the boys !! Since we're more or less on the same boat, you can chat me anytime!! I'm semi-ia bcs I'm really busy so i don't really interact much but i do my best to respond (please do chat me I'll be happy to yap!!!!) (also I'm sorry for the late reply i didn't think someone would actually chat me here) although some zeroses have already formed their own friend group, I'm sure there are some people like you (us) that still hasn't. it just needs a little more effort to find the right group for you where you won't feel as if you're being excluded or feeling quite lonely. Some communities/zeroses do actually ask if you want to join their gcs and i recommend doing that first for wider variety of people than a private 1on1, you'll find more people there that you will see have better compatibility with you. but do chat me too okay!!! Let's be lonely together LOL (I'm kidding this is a first step for us to making new friends!)
