I told my girlfriend at the time that I might like guys too and she told me I was just confused because we haven’t had sex yet. I have had sex before. Just not with her and not with guys. I wasn’t confused. I was confiding in her because I couldn’t do it with my homophobic family and she just invalidated me. I told her I wasn’t in the mood anymore when she wanted to do it and was met with slurs and threatening to out me. She eventually did apologize but it was too late and I decided it was best if we never talked ever again. Like ever.