I think I sent a message by mistake that I hadn't finished writing, I apologize if that happened.
Hey, sorry for bothering you, You don't have to post this if you don't want to, but you're the only person I saw on tl posting anonymous messages about they topic of csam, and I wanted to take the opportunity to say something.
I've seen people take this vulnerable situation to make jokes like "I'm better than you cuz I didn't like them before", to make this situation into a t/b war, accuse people without evidence, and the saddest thing for me, see many victims of grooming/csa being harassed and forced to speak, not giving them time to process the trigger or directly targeting them as "oh, you support csam". I understand that everyone here was worried, we wanted answers and any silence could be considered complicity, but I'm disappointed(? that no one here has gaf about these harmful attitudes in such a vulnerable situation. Again, I understand the concern, but this situation was difficult for many (victims or not), but as a victim myself, I was disappointed to see how these harmful attitudes were simply ignored and passed over here, idk, maybe I'm exaggerating, but I don't know how to feel seeing that a csam situation was taken to jokes, to a t/b discussion, to point fingers and divide the fandom, and that no one seemed to care that many victims were harassed and forced to talk and unpack their traumas, idk again.
Maybe no one will agree with me, but it is something I noticed, I'm not trying to hold anyone accountable or make a fight about it, but this caught my attention not in a good way.