i believe when people say move on they’re not telling you to forget nct mark NO NEVER nct mark will always have a place in our hearts but moving on is to accepting that some things are out of our control now instead of staying attached to them forever

the members have known mark longer than any of us have they’ve been through everything with him since the very beginning if anyone understands how painful this is it’s them but even then everyone still has to keep moving forward with their lives eventually bc they have responsibilities to reassure their fans as well

like ofc you’re allowed to be sad nobody’s saying you can’t be but if you keep holding onto that sadness/madness over every move the members and sm make and refusing to let go nothing’s really gonna get better you’re just gonna keep hurting over this again and again and that’s not good for you i’m sure mark wouldn’t want you to be sad or mad either so please be kind to yourself

we may all handle things differently but we’re still here because we love mark hopefully with time things will hurt a little less and until then we’ll get through it together 🫂