I share the appreciation for her (all Puppingtons honestly) and I'm delighted when people can see her negative traits as well.

The groomer-like behaviors are something I hardly see people talk about in favor of positioning her as completely helpless and nonparticipating in Orel's abuse. I think people are unaware it makes it seem like they think of her as incapable in general. I'd dare to say she's a woobification victim.

Orel probably picked up his tendency to coerce from her (said with all my love for them both).