honestly I'm a little confused by this question if I'm being honest. how am I supposed to know whether someone has done something wrong to others, including people I consider friends, if I'm not aware of what happened in the first place? I can't read minds nor can I automatically know someone's past or what they've done behind the scenes. I tend to avoid drama so I'm not always informed about these situations and I don't think it's fair to question my morals or loyalties based on things I may not even know about. if I'm unaware of someone's actions, how am I supposed to be held accountable for them? I understand that people have their own standards when it comes to who they associate with, but I don't think it's fair to expect me to know everything about everyone I interact with. if there's something specific I should know then I'd rather be told directly instead of having my character questioned through a vague question like this