God those nurses SUCK! im so sorry and angry for you and your parent, anon. It's not fair that we got treated like idiots and got exploitated/disrespected by health workers just bc they have the control and upper hand in this dynamic. Like im always grateful that i still have national healthcare to fall back to but it still comes from our taxes and yet some nurses/medical workers act like we're pest when we're asking for more clarity or for help. Not to mention the way our (caregivers) effort and sacrifice tend to get overlooked or even expected by doctors, nurses and families alike.. It's horrible. I grind out art so often even when I feel souls-sucked or exhausted bc I refuse to disappear to this caregiving task completely. I hope you also do this little "rebellious" thing in daily basis anon!