i usually say it that way bc ik it’s easier for people with a preferred dynamic to find it !! if that makes sense. sometimes w duo names whoever’s name is first is considered like…the top (? idk how serious it is on this side of twt anymore it’s been a very long time hdhhdhdhsh) i usually am a yeonkai-sayer but i want to make sure im going about tagging things correctly if that makes sense jdhdhdjdjdj and thank uuuuuu!! 🫂