ahh okay yeah fortunately i never really see anything like that bc my mute list is extremelyyyy long lmao but those kinds of discussions have always annoyed me to no end 💀
and to be clear i truly have no interest in getting involved in any discourse but let me just say that in big 2026 we CANNOT still be going around thinking that it's somehow progressive to ignore or dismiss a major aspect of someone's personality as inauthentic (for example, a big muscular man very vocally preferring to be called pretty and princess) in favor of only ever highlighting the "opposite" traits as genuine (for example, using this same hypothetical man's stereotypically masculine behaviors to "prove" that he's actually a manly man and definitely not feminine in any way) like in fact. that's the exact opposite of subversive thinking 😭