Thank you for liking my answer!! ;v;
Umm im kinda struggling to answer this bc i dont want to sound like a 'only i understand him and everyone else is wrong' person or that im insulting other fans that have a differing view from me!
For me, i find sh's persona to be really interesting bc i don't find him easily summed up at all. Physically, he's a lil guy(sry sohi) really lean and super light on his feet (which is part of why i love seeing him dance!) and has like dainty wrists but then his face is very Boyish as in, youthful and cute. When i saw that memories(? Or gag) stage ending fairy i thought 'aw he looks like a cute younger brother type', and his fangs give him a trickster/Puck energy vibe like he's a bit mischievous-lookin. All those qualities might lead one to make assumptions like that he would be messy around the house etc
But then personality-wise, it's a bit different than maybe i had thought... he's a bit of a neat freak, kind of really wants to experience bossing someone around and taking care of them as a hyung (and as another youngest child, i understand that lol) which he does w atn despite them only having a FOUR MONTH differencejshdjsjsks. He's a lil strict with manners (aka telling atn to get his hands out of his pockets lol) and that makes me wonder how he'll be when he's a very senior sunbae in the industry har har.....and he also has this vibe of being comfortable in his own skin/masculinity and that makes him come across (to meee) as confident and at ease and his natural cuteness that everyone around him sees and loves ARRRRGGHHHH i love my sohee ☹️🩷 idk i think w kpop its very easy to box idols into archetypes/personas that dont align w reality, and writing fic can make that expand into flanderization of an idols persona in the fandom which isnt always fun for me idk sometimes its like that meme 'he would not fucking say that' but then i reflect like 'well yeah he wouldnt this is fanfiction' hfdjkssksk another nothingburger answer but yeah. Here ya go 🩷