aww this is such a nice message tysm 🥹 i had this realisation lately too that hyperfocusing on a few idiots who ragebait for fun isnt doing any good to us mentally & emotionally, and stan twt doesn't rlly represent what ppl irl think about rj (everyone loves him sm) hence why i chose to keep the peace within my extent and try to not be TOO involved with the fanwars. not that i love him less, i just think the haters don't deserve that ounce of attention. kudos to everyone who fights tooth and nail for him but like u said, its not mandatory. fangirling standards shouldn't be set with how much u defend xx from the haters anyways

ill keep ur words in mind! tysm for loving renjun too 💗 i really appreciate ur last words