I dont hate femboys, but femboys as a cultural object are often used as a bludgeon in a manner that can be frustrating. The classic example being people shouting "NO THIS CHARACTER CANT BE TRANS!!! YOU'D BE STEALING FEMBOY REPRESENTATION!!!" anytime a piece of media so much as looks in the direction of actually questioning a character's gender. Or the way that REAL trans people will be pushed into the closet by people around them saying "noooo youre not a trans woman/nonbinary! You can just be a feminine man, you can be a femboy!"

Like it isnt to say one CANT be a femboy or they dont exist but you see that shit enough and you start to get real wary of the way "femboy" as a rhetorical tool is INVOKED. Do i make any sense here?