hii lila just wanted to put some thoughts out here! ive been thinking this for a while and i genuinely believe everyone should either deactivate (?) the anon feature on here if there exists one i dont know i dont use this app/site so im not sure if it exists, or get rid of these anonymous platforms for a while in general because all im seeing is people jump on the opportunity to be nasty to others and going as far as insulting their appearances which have nothing to do with anyone's online activity that they could have a problem with. anonymity is very easily the door towards becoming evil and mean because it gives people the opportunity to say vile shit and project whatever negativity they have inside them without having it traced back to their identity. so they think they can get away with it. none of these people will ever have the courage to say any of the things they say anonymously to anyone's face or directly. and I understand this platform was originally not meant for this purpose but thats all im seeing it being used for on a literal daily basis and it's getting so exhausting to come online and every person has people saying one thing or the other in their anon asks and just adding onto the messes and drama on the tl. online fandom spaces are supposed to be fun and to de-stress and make friends but they've just turned so negative and messy and drama driven and toxic that its genuinely so concerning. i dont know why everyone's so obsessed with strangers online, how they run their fan accounts, what they tweet about or what they don't. i dont know im just venting and you dont even have to post this if you dont wish to but i just wanted to express these thoughts i was having because I've seen you get this random hate a lot recently while i genuinely can't see what anyone could have a problem with you with. i dont know i feel like for at least a while it would be for the better for everyone's mental wellness and peace to just. shut down these anonymous spaces for a bit to strip such vile people away from the opportunity to be mean for no reason. if anyone ever has valid criticism or concern, they should be able to address the person directly. the anon hate towards everyone is just getting out of hand.

on the other hand, i do see that you don't get affected by it much which i am very relieved to know <3 you're very strong and i admire that about you